Read this before you step inside.
SapphoX is a private space for women who love women. If you’re not a woman, not WLW, or not aligned with that experience — this isn’t the place for you. This is a curated community, not a free-for-all.
① Identity & Purpose
A space for: women & sapphic identities, trans women & non-binary femmes aligned with WLW experience, queer connection, growth, thought, desire, creativity.
Not a space for: menstraight tourists, “curious” couples, fetishization, anonymous spectators. We gatekeep for safety, not ego.
② Respect Is the Baseline
Respect isn’t a reward here — it’s the minimum entry cost. We flirt, tease, joke, and play…but harassment, predatory behaviour, or entitlement = instant removal. Black cat energy, not bad vibes.
③ Privacy Is Sacred
No screenshots, no sharing posts or messages outside, no outing, no reposting without consent. What happens here stays here.
④ Desire ≠ Objectification
We can be bold, sensual, raw, queer. But don’t treat people like trophies, assets, porn, or fantasy props. Connection > consumption.
⑤ Consent Culture
Always ask — never assume. DM stagging, flirty comments, adding to private chats personal questions. If someone isn’t into it, step back with grace. Consent is sexy.
⑥ Behaviour That Gets You Removed
TERF ideologyracism / colorismableism / fatphobiabiphobia / transphobiafascism or hate activismstalking / harassment/ unsolicited sexual content/ manipulating emotionally vulnerable members. We’re here to heal, not harm.
⑦ Be Real, Not Performed
You don’t need: an aesthetic feed, filtered identity, perfection persona, cosplay. Authenticity > performance. Vulnerability is welcome. Drama isn’t.
⑧ Mental Health & Sensitive Topics
SapphoX is a space for shared lived experiences, not therapy. We may discuss: mental health, trauma coming outrelationships & boundaries, self-worthsafe sex & queer intimacy. These are personal experiences, not professional advice. SapphoX is not a substitute for therapy, medical guidance, or crisis support. If you’re in danger, seek emergency services or LGBTQ+ crisis lines. A resource list will be available inside the community.
⑨ Moderation ≠ Emotional Support
Moderators hold the space — they’re not your therapists or surrogate partners. We keep order, we don’t babysit. Follow the rules, or we escort you out in stilettos.
⑩ Age & Verification Policy
SapphoX is 18+ only. To protect members and prevent minors, trolls, or impersonation, we may request: social media links, alternative verification, manual approval. You can remove verification info after approval. Providing false info (including age) may lead to removal. Real members stay safe. Shady ones get cut.
⑪ Content & Promo Rules
Allowed: helpful resources, useful recommendations community-aligned content.
Not allowed:spam, self-promotion, sales funnels affiliation, links directing users to competitor platforms.
Value > advertising.
⑫ Reporting & Safety
You can report posts, comments, or profiles inside the community to report@sapphox.com or to @sapphox_admin. Multiple reports may auto-remove content. Serious cases lead to bans and, when necessary, reports to authorities. We take: harassment, doxxing, predatory behaviour, sexual content, involving minors, very seriously.
⑬ Why You’re Here
To connect. To find your people. To think, grow, desire, speak, exist.
Quietly, loudly, messily, beautifully.
Be bold. Be gentle. Be sapphic.
Welcome home.
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